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Surprise pregnancies are always a blessing in disguise.  Sometimes the disguise is larger than you see past!  When you think about the next nine months and all the negative things your will have to endure to carry a pregnancy to fruition; the weight gain and the long journey to loose the weight, the morning sickness, the doctor’s appointments and the painful labor.  There are many things that go through your mind that can psyche you out a pregnancy.  The unspeakable happens and you have a miscarriage.  There is NO relief in that only guilt.  Guilt that you some how caused the miscarriage by secretly wishing you were not pregnant.  This guilt is hard to overcome- but time will help heal you.  In time you will realize that you really don’t have the power to wish a pregnancy away.

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